Sunday, December 25, 2005

Christmas Greetings


Christmas Greetings
Originally uploaded by becksfort.
Here is our Christmas photo for 2005! Not half bad considering it was taken by setting the camera up on the mantle, so I decided to add it to our blog. We have been having a very relaxing Christmas and are enjoying our last Christmas without a kid :o) Next year will be a lot different! Even though we were surprised by the number of gifts Ezra received this year :o)

Merry Christmas to you! Hope it has been a blessed day!

Friday, December 23, 2005

I'm offended that you're offended--Merry Christmas

Thought this was quite true and thought I would share it this way instead of sending on a foward email to people.


By Debbie Daniel
December 13, 2004

I'm on a "Merry Christmas" mission and I'm in full throttle. My little
yellow VW Beetle has turned into a Christmas billboard with Merry
Christmas written across the back window. Yes, I've decided to trek off to
work everyday on the public highways with a message that seems to offend
people.

At stop lights, I even turn my music up a little louder, and to top it
off, I sing along with it. Don't I know that stopping at a red light to
roll my windows down only to share the joy of Christmas carols on public
streets is a No-No? Don't I fear the Christmas Gestapo and those who would
have me remove the written message from my car?

I'm sorry folks, but the only person I'm concerned about "offending"
during this Christmas season is the Lord himself. LEAVE THAT MANGER ALONE!
We've allowed the Baby Jesus to be kicked out of His lowly manger, and
those offended by Christmas are still not happy.

I refuse to let this happen. I'm going to do my part to make sure "Merry
Christmas" doesn't become extinct. Because like it or not, if the
believers in Christmas don't take a stand now, it's gone forever.

Listen folks, the Christian community has been underestimated before; we
will have to show ourselves again.

I walked into a Wendy's Restaurant the other day and was rather exuberant
with my "Merry Christmas" greeting to the manager. He didn't have much of
a response and I said, "Where's your Christmas spirit?" He said, "We're
not allowed to use the words "Merry Christmas" when greeting customers. We
can only say "Happy Holiday."

This morning I grabbed a quick breakfast at a Whataburger Restaurant. I
noticed there wasn't a single decoration in the store. I asked the manager
why they weren't decorated for Christmas. He told me the corporate
headquarters decided not to send any decorations to any of their stores,
and he didn't know why.

After I heard about all the Macy's and Federated Stores taking down their
Merry Christmas signs, the Target stores not allowing the Salvation Army
to "Ring the Christmas bells," and the many incidents of children, choirs,
and bands not allowed to play or sing Christmas carols, I realized it was
happening right here in my own little Texas town.

How can this be? Not Texas!

We do, however, have a store, Hobby Lobby, that plays nothing but
Christmas carols during the season. On Christmas Day they run a full page
ad in our local newspaper. That ad is not to promote the store, but uses
the entire page to tell the story of Jesus' birth. Now that's taking a
stand. We need to thank them.

When I saw a news report the other evening of children being taught new
words to a song we've sung for years - "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" - I
was saddened to hear "We Wish You a Splendid Holiday."

I know now that it's just a matter of time that the "Merry Christmas"
greetings will be gone. Look around your town. Notice the "Holiday"
greetings and not "Christmas." It's happening right before our very eyes.

Start singing the songs; go down the streets of America singing to your
heart's content. Get some of those wash-off markers that these kids use to
write on their car windows when they're rooting for their hometown
football team. It's easy to do, and if a torrential rain washes it off,
write it on there again.

We've got to get this message out. "Go Tell It On the Mountain . . . that
Jesus Christ is Born." Sing it, speak it, be a billboard for our Lord.

The story of this "Baby Jesus" alone has brought about more goodwill at
this time of year than any other day we celebrate. How can we sit back and
allow Him to be snuffed out of our lives?

Is it Jesus, or is it His followers that the "offended" don't like? What
kind of revulsion galvanizes one to campaign so vehemently against the
mere mention of His name, the mere singing of a carol, or the mere visual
of a sign that says "Merry Christmas?"

I can listen to my own boss at work use some of the vilest words and
follow up with, "Excuse my French." I may cringe inside at his damning of
God's name, but I tolerate it. So if you don't like me wishing you a
"Merry Christmas," I'll say, "Excuse my joy." You may cringe that I
celebrate the birth of Jesus, but just tolerate it.

I cannot be concerned that "Merry Christmas" offends you. If I'm not
careful, the day will come when saying I'm a Christian will offend you.

I'm offended that you're offended. How about that?

When we get to a point that we can no longer take part in a tradition we
hold dear, we have no choice; we either defend that tradition or we give
it up to those who say NO. That's it . . . period. So, which will it be?

I'm not giving up my "Merry Christmas" joy to anyone. If I know of someone
that celebrates another holiday during this time of year, I will be glad
to wish them whatever holiday they want. Just tell me what it is and I'll
shout it to the world and wish you a grand celebration.

Just give me Christmas. To you merchants: Stop being so hypocritical and
"filling your tills" on the back of Jesus! Who do you think is the symbol
of giving at this time of year? It was the wise men bringing gifts to the
newborn Christ-child.

You want your coffers full, but have ordered your employees to take down
all the Merry Christmas signs. If that's the case, I'll buy gifts at a
place that understands my joy.

If you're worried about offending someone, you just did. The most recent
Newsweek survey shows that 82% of Americans believe that Jesus is the Son
of God. So, in trying not to offend a few, you've offended many.

It's okay to jump into the "Merry Christmas" spirit when it fills your
cash register, but let's call it something else . . . and don't stop
giving . . . and don't stop buying. . . we'll just change the name and
you'll never know the difference.

I know the difference and I'm feeling it greatly. It's hard not to be
aware that townships across our country have actually banned the singing
of Christmas carols because it might offend someone. And it's not just the
religious songs; it's the secular ones too. No more "Jingle Bells" or
"Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" because they're associated with
Christmas. Boy, aren't we getting sensitive?

If we're not celebrating Christmas for the hope it gives with the birth of
our Savior . . . there is no hope!

I noticed a few years ago that we changed the name of Abraham Lincoln's
and George Washington's birthday so as to be all inclusive regarding the
Presidents. Hark, if we should recognize anyone as exceptional. Now it's
called Presidents' Day.

Well, if we're going to be so all inclusive, next month I'll have to refer
to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as Civil Rights Leaders' Day. We don't
want to exclude great Americans like Rosa Parks or Cesar Chavez, do we?
And to think that Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton might be left out.

We might need to change Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Grandparents' Day
to All Parents' Day. Just lump them all together.

It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? So what's the difference?

My freedom to celebrate Christmas in the tradition of the Christian
religion is as much my right as it is your right to be offended by it. So
what are we going to do? Did anyone hear me . . . what are we going to do?


Do we defend a person's right to go forward with a time tested tradition
(how about 2000 years?), or do we defend a person's right to end it all
because they're offended? As long as we live in this great land and have
the freedom to express ourselves and what we believe in, we will always
offend someone.

If we try to make everything right for everyone, we won't have anything
for anyone.

May you always have Christmas in your heart!

Thursday, December 22, 2005

Merry Christmas...well almost

Greetings!

It has been a little while since the last post. So here I am to give an update on all that has gone on since and what we are currently up to.


-- The weekend after Becks' parents left for home we went out with friends to select our Christmas tree! We had a great time! The first place we stopped was a little spendy for their trees, but we did end up buying some of their homemade apple cider doughnuts and hot chocolate before heading out for the next tree farm. Delicious!! There are pics from our tree hunting experience in our photo section.

-- Becks celebrated his 32nd birthday on December 13th! We didn't do anything really big for the day, but we did enjoy a nice dinner at Outback Steakhouse. We were too stuffed for dessert!

-- My preschool is currently on Christmas break! Woo hoo! We ended with a Christmas program for the parents on Friday the 16th. It was funny to see the kids up on stage waving to moms and dads and singing (or attempting to).

-- I have caught a nasty head cold from the kids I nanny for. Fun times! So I am very congested and unable to taste and smell most of the time. Don't you just love cold and flu season?!

-- We had a Dr's appointment yesterday and found out that Ezra is growing! Good thing, huh?! Although I didn't really need to go to the doctor to figure that one out. He is definitely growing and getting stronger! It is amazing to feel him punching, kicking and stretching inside!

-- I have started to get things put on our baby registry. I have only been adding things from on-line. We have yet to go to the store and scan items that we might need. If anyone has any suggestions as to what is helpful to have let me know. I am open to suggestions.

-- Our friends Nelson and Jenn from Ohio are coming out to visit with Nelson's family for Christmas and New Years, so we are going to get to see them!! We are very excited about catching up on all that has gone on in our lives since July/August.

So do you have all of your Christmas shopping done yet? I just found out this morning that the best time to do last minute shopping at the mall is right when they open the doors...or soon after. I went this morning a little after eight and got parking right up near the door and was able to shop with hardly anyone else around. What a beautiful thing! Becks is lucky as his company is located right across the street from our downtown mall! So he has easy access to shopping anytime during his workday! Has he done his shopping yet?! That is still to be determined. My guess is no. He is really into the last minute shopping! But he did say he didn't want to go out and shop on Christmas eve. We shall see.

Well in case we don't blog again for a while. We hope you have a wonderful Christmas!! And a Happy New Year!

Monday, December 05, 2005

Update

At 24 weeks
At 24 weeks,
originally uploaded by becksfort.
Well here I am at 24 weeks! You've got to love baggy jeans that don't fit. I guess I need to get use to it. I am constantly pulling my pants up as the maternity pants are so loose around. I have now officially outgrown my pre-pregnancy pants, so....

I had my Dr appt on Wednesday and all is going well. Blood pressure is back to normal and I had gained six pounds from the last appointment. I am right on target for weight gain, so that is good. I get to go back in a little over two weeks from today for my next appt! Ezra is definitely growing and pushing out my belly.

Becks' parents were here from Wednesday night until this morning. We had a great time hanging out with them. We celebrated birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays during this visit. No Christmas gifts yet. Just a nice holiday meal :o) It was nice to spend time with them and funny to think that the next time they come out Ezra will be here! Wow! We of course put them to work around the house. Dad did some plumbing work in the kitchen and Mom was busy cleaning, painting and putting the finish on two of our dining room chairs. Hopefully we didn't work them too hard :o)

Well that is all for now! Hope you all are doing well! Let us hear from you when you get some time.